Have you not made up your mind already? What is the delay? Or are you just going through the kind of experience that we all have when we double-check our plans before giving a final commitment to them?be made  We know what we want to do. We know what we plan to do. But we haven't yet done it and we might just possibly change our minds, so we run through the whole plan in our mind once more. That's not dithering, that's double-checking. An important choice in your emotional life now, must carefully.