Imagine sitting in a cinema so bored by a movie that you start looking at the Exit sign and wondering who designed it and why it is that colour? Why would you do that? Well, maybe you are with someone who loves that film and will feel upset or abandoned if you depart. Or maybe... well, whatever the reason, there is an analogy here with something that is happening (or not happening) in your life. You are 'failing to engage' with a key situation, you either need to get into it... or get out of it!