How worried do you need to be? It is never easy for us to tell what constitutes an appropriate level of concern. We don't want to appear careless or take an unnecessary risk They drag us into anxiety and, even when we climb back out again, the grime of gloom clings to our clothing.Worrying too much or wasting time in idle talks or just sitting and brooding over this and that. Risk is not a disturbing factor. Playing safe is another game we are busy in playing.Then drawbacks distract us.