our arrogant attitudes can separate us from other people. If you replace strong expressions of certainty with displays of vulnerability, if you say less and listen more, if you concede uncertainty and seek advice, you won't be demonstrating weakness.

.Is it all working out perfectly? Of course not. When does it ever do that? And what should we be, other than suspicious, if ever this appears to be the case? Life is always tense. Problems never vanish entirely. Troubles, though, like tides, rise and fall. Your tide is now out. It isn't due to come rolling back in for quite some time. Don't keep looking over your shoulder. Stare straight ahead in the direction of your most cherished dream. You are in with a real chance of fulfilling it