When you are in a hole, stop digging! Don't try to solve one problem by creating another. You know what you really need to do.ant to know what's really going on? Just ask. In fact, don't feel obliged to articulate your inquiry. Just look. Observe the actions of a particular person. Catch their eye if you can. If you can't, ask yourself why they won't look at you. Remember those 'X-ray specs' they used to advertise in kids comics. You now have the psychological equivalent. Yours, though, really work! They don't show bones, they show hidden agendas. You can see into hearts, souls and, to a lesser extent minds. Be sensitive to how much you say about this.

 Though secrets are sometimes painful to keep, they can be dangerous to share. Either stop doing what you're not sure you're doing... or be sure, that nobody else knows! Share your happiness with others and share their concerns which they find hard to relieve,translated in tears.