Are you ready to go white-water rafting, bungee jumping or streaking in a public place? Well, indeed, I rather suspected that this might be your answer. And that's fine. There is, in any event, a big and significant difference between being courageous and being foolhardy. But sometimes, acts of great wisdom require vast amounts of inner strength and resolve, you have such precious abilities available to you in abundance now.
Comic books frequently explore the idea of a person with the power to suddenly shrink or grow. The hero (or heroine) may become as tiny as a microbe or taller than a mountain. Physically, we all know that such abilities are impossible but psychologically, the idea resonates relevance. By thinking different thoughts, by prioritising various emotions, we can adjust our size to suit the need of our situation. All you need to remember is that you are bigger than whatever now seems to be bigger than you.
Are there some experiences that we don't have to have in full? You might as well ask whether there are some sentences that you don't need to read to the end because you know what the last word will hippopotamus! There! You see? We don't always know. We must always allow for the unexpected. So if you are now making a decision on the basis of an experience, you ought to make sure that you really had it and didn't just 'nearly' have it.
According to the classic old pop song, 'there are more questions than answers.' But, in all probability, there are more answers than questions because most questions in life tend to lead to more than one answer. Hence your dilemma this weekend. Various choices present themselves and it isn't as simple as deciding which of these is best. They all have their pros and their cons. You will do better to accept as much gracefully, than to strive for some theoretical and ultimately unattainable 'perfect' solution.you can have an argumentative streak too, when you want to - and even when you don't want to!
you can have an argumentative streak too, when you want to - and even when you don't want to!
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