Imagine deciding that you can't draw in a nice lungful of fresh air because too many other people in the world are breathing it all up. That's daft, yet we allow ourselves to be just as ludicrously pessimistic about other freely available resources. We think, for example, that the world does not contain enough love - or luck - for everyone. Yet it does. Indeed, at the risk of sounding controversial,Open your mind now, to the idea that something your heart wants is available.