It isn't just that you now need to be nicer to yourself - or that you deserve this - that this makes sense and is only fair. There is another big reason why you should now be listing your successes and taking pride in your accomplishments. Lately, your acutely analytic mind has assessed a situation and found fault with it. More pointedly, because this is a situation that you have helped to engineer, you have decided that you must have made some great error. But it will soon be clear that you were wrong about being wrong.