The cosmos is challenging you to be proactive, rather than reactive. As various people display a particular attitude or expectation, you can do one of two things. You can say, 'Right. This is how the world clearly intends to treat me, so I shall respond defensively.' Or we can say, 'I am not going to worry about how fairly or otherwise I am being judged, I am just going to do my best to behave in a wise and saintly fashion.' That takes strength and humility but it is the only approach that is guaranteed to increase your power.