'Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can change and the wisdom to know the difference.' The way in which music can influence our perception of a situation.The gift of flowers make us happy,try to hear happy tune! You are wondering who you can rely on and what you may have to do in order to foster a more supportive response from those who do not share your faith in an inspiring vision. Can they be won over? Are there things you can say or promises you can make that might encourage a change of attitude? You may yet find that it is sufficient simply to acknowledge their doubts and to show more interest in their own concerns. Make a gesture of friendship.