We all have closets. They all contain skeletons. Some of us have managed to jam shut the doors over the locks in a desperate effort to contain those lurking secrets from the past. Others, it would appear, have replaced those closet doors with pieces of glass and installed electric lights that cause those bones to glow so brightly that they can be seen for miles. You don't need to illuminate your own for the benefit of others now. But  you may need to look at what you are hiding away. Sometimes, some of us get so caught up in the desire to exchange attractive looking gifts that we hardly stop to think about what they actually contain. Yet your need for substance to be seen as more important than style. And whenever the substance is significant enough, the style hardly matters. What you are offering to do for yourself  matters far more than how you are planning to do it.Do you know what needs to change? For it looks as if the thing you may most need to change is your idea about what needs to change! Is your vision a little too specific and fixed? It could prove much healthier to drop some preconceptions, abandon various expectations. Allow yourself instead to bob about for a little while like a small boat on the ocean of uncertainty. Try to resist the temptation to capture and harness the wind of change, just relax while you see where it blows you. TV Shows that have been created to satisfy the needs of millions must be fast-moving and superficial. To cover a subject in any depth and detail, programmes must be slower. We can say much the same about the sweeping generalisations that people often offer each other by way of advice. You can't do, what everyone seems to think you ought to do. For your plans to be right, they must take your individual circumstances properly into account.