Some options in life are mutually exclusive. 'Choose this and you can forget ever having that' and vice versa. Other factors seem, at first, to require you to make just such a tricky decision, but turn out, on closer investigation, to be not at all mutually exclusive. It's never wise to jump to a hasty conclusion, about anyone or anything,the promise of an ability to negotiate in an area where there is actually much more room for manoeuvre than you currently imagine.Don't dwell on how difficult it might be to achieve this aim. Don't distract yourself with all the reasons why it probably won't be easy. Just dream your dream, allow yourself your hope and make your declaration of intent.