I always feel uncomfortable when, as circumstances sometimes require me to, I have to advise someone to expect the unexpected. The very phrase reads like a request to be teased by trolls.When feelings are more powerful than thoughts. And are they also more important? That rather depends on how you choose to view a sensitive situation. You can try to stand back and decide that your objective perspective affords the only relevant perspective. But there is a reason why you are now so keenly conscious of an emotion that you might far prefer to ignore. Be brave enough.