Thursday 4 April 2013

GOSSIPS

we can all understand why the newspapers are full of celebrity gossip and bickering local politicians. Better for us all to hear about that than the truly nerve-racking stuff. Indeed- So too, could be the factor that's causing you the most worry NOW. But it won't necessarily be when various political battles have been fought and won - especially if those campaigns have involved anger directed at the forces of government who are trying to control the world in another way. No need to have stress.
There is a seemingly easy way to sort out your current source of emotional stress. All you need is one specific resource. The only trouble is, it is not a resource that you seem to have access to. So, you feel frustrated. You can see no further than your need - and your desire to meet it by hook or by crook. You really must, though, see further than that. There's another, less obvious way to get round your problem. It calls for more effort and ingenuity but it offers one great advantage. It is a lot more feasible.
 Kids sometimes deliberately call each other nasty names. They pull faces and use tones of voice that are deliberately intended to goad and rile. Kids, though, can afford to be provocative - for they are blessed with an amazing ability to forgive and forget. Yet when grown-ups get mad, they stay mad, and thus must be very careful about who they upset. Someone, who ought to be old enough to know better, is now acting like a big kid. But you, of course, are not going to be drawn down to their level.
 When people settle for second best, they might genuinely believe that they are never going to accomplish any more, so they should resign themselves to this. Or they may feel that any further progress would come at some considerable material or emotional cost, which they could never justify. The reasons don't matter but the attitudes adopted from that point onwards make a big difference. They have to stop seeing it as second best and view it as a personal best for them. That's really all you need to remember this,Businesses make money by buying items at a low price and selling them for a higher one. They have to cover the costs of their staff and premises. They also have to generate a profit. Is that fair? Well, it is definitely how the world works, so let us at least accept that most people consider it fair enough. You could also ask if it is fair when the business owners get their calculations wrong and lose money? Again, it is a moot point, life presents you with a fairer way to do a deal and minimise a risk.  
.It is one thing to fear an alien invasion because you have read too many sci-fi novels and drunk too much coffee. It's different if you have been through the electronics catalogue, ordered lots of parts and slowly constructed a home-made intergalactic radio transmitter through which you are now in active contact with the lizard-like inhabitants of the Zarg galaxy. Or, to put it another way, what is the real basis of your biggest worry.
Every time we turn on the TV these days, we see someone in a kitchen cooking. There they are, carefully combining these fine ingredients with those exquisite flavours. Just imagine if all that cordon bleu cuisine ended up being offered on chipped, faded, crockery to be eaten with rusty knives and forks. Presentation isn't everything but if you've got substance, you might as well have some style.When psychologists invite their clients to recall formative childhood experiences, they don't just do it to help them come up with excuses. 'Oh, I can't help being like this because when I was little that happened.' The real object of the exercise involves understanding the past so that you can see how it has shaped the present - and thus take control over how the future will turn out. It is often much easier to break habits once you know what has caused you to fall into it. This will brings you education and liberation 
 'You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars, you have a right to be here.' Ah, The Desiderata. An old poem found in a graveyard? Or a more recent composition? There was much debate about this in the 70s when those words were read out on a hit record. Anyway,  this  has had overtones of that same message. So, is it just psycho-babble? Or are you truly under that protection of a benign cosmos? You will see your reassuring proof this.
Some people are behind the times in their clothes or attitudes. There is nothing wrong with this, as long as it is the result of a conscious choice and not just the accidental by-product of inertia. Other folk are ahead of their time. Some even get so close to the cutting-edge that they end up with wounds. But then, pioneering spirits get rewarded almost as often as they get rebuffed. Yet nothing in this world is quite as powerful as an idea that has come at the moment when the world is ready for that idea - as you will see this.

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