We all love to watch films where the downtrodden victim suddenly turns on their oppressor. We like it even better when they get justice. But we don't really expect to see this kind of thing happen right before our eyes. Now, though, we must ask where is the enemy that you need no longer suffer at the hands of? Is this a person? Or might it be a character trait of your own that you long to conquer? What habit keeps you in its thrall? A first step on the road to freedom can be taken thisWhen we look at situation from the outside we feel that we can see exactly what's wrong with it, who needs to do something differently or why a set of difficulties keep arising. We may be right but if we don't communicate our insight tactfully, we won't help anyone. There's also always the possibility that extenuating circumstances apply. We need to be sure we are fully informed about a matter before we judge it! Nobody now understands a delicate situation better than you do. Respect your own knowledge!.