There are times when you feel as if you are trying to climb up an escalator that is busily rolling downwards. It takes all your energy and determination just to stay in the same place. You are not, though, doing the wrong thing or even doing the right thing in the wrong way. At the moment you are simply doing something difficult to the best of your abilities for an exceptionally good reason. Recognise this and stop criticising yourself. Then start looking for good news. It really is waiting in your life to be found.
You have been trying to arrive at an answer for some while. Do you now have it? Well, it has not arrived in a glorious moment of revelation. You have not suddenly felt inclined to sit bolt upright and yell, you have slowly crept, by a process of elimination, towards a new understanding. So, put this to the test. Try leaning a little harder on the notion, or hope, that looks most likely to support you. The sooner you find out how much it really has to offer you, the better off you will start to become in every way. 
Some people take life very seriously. They let everything get to them. They fuss, fret, worry and hurry. They whine and opine. They nurture resentment and foster fury. What a shame they can't all be laid back, mellow, easy-going and good-humoured, like you. An interesting celestial outlook implies a way to turn a tense situation into a source of celebration. Just don't let someone else's problem become your problem too. Refuse to get bogged down (or caught up) in an unnecessary drama